Seth Godin recently published this very short post:
A parody of yourself
A simple test for brands, organizations and individuals:
When you exaggerate the things that people associate with you, your presence and your contribution, does it make you a better version of yourself?
When Seth gets it right (which is often), he gets it really really right. I’ve been thinking about this question since I saw the post and damn. What *do* people associate with me, my presence, my contribution? I know what I want them to associate with me, and I make an effort to focus on those traits.
But what can I do about those unknown things – the personal quirks and habits and unlikeable bits that I’m unaware of? The things that people who love me don’t care about but could nevertheless impact my ability to accomplish my goals? Self-awareness and reflection get me to a certain point, but how do I get past all the doubt and uncertainty and accept that I’m just a human? A normal human who has normal human-y quirks and habits and oddities?
I thought about doing a self-parody but stopped that idea right in its tracks. I’m not in the best place to parody myself from a helpful, funny perspective and it’s far too easy to think of myself as a ridiculous monster. Untrue, of course, but that’s what too much navel-gazing gets me.
So…going out on a limb, I’m going to answer Seth’s question with a “yes.” People tell me that I’m creative, engaged, warm, attentive, and kind, and those are traits that only make me better 🙂